At some point, I thought. I must gift the world with my story. It’s powerful in many ways, and to never share your jewels is almost like keeping them all bottled up.
They waste away, not because its essence will deteriorate. It wastes because no one can capture its beauty. See your story is like precious gems, accumulated from your own spirits experiences that, when exposed glimmer a beauty only unique to you.
So I think, now is the time.To speak my peace.
In speaking my peace I Acknowledge not that I am a victim of abuse but that I am powerful in my life. My empathic abilities grant me the emotional intelligence to navigate this life, and I now choose to embrace its power rather than fear it.
The Root Cause Of Narcissism, is a refusal and fear of our true power.
Many have summed up power to be something that is bad. Something evil, that people do horrible things to gain. However this is incorrect.
Lack of power is cruel. The lack of power is what breaks hearts, destroys families, ruins lives. True power is none of these things. True power is loving, safe and pure.
True power doesn’t have to war to show its power. Power just is. It’s an existence, and it never has to fight to be here. It only needs to be surrendered to, to truly exist in our world.
That’s the dilemma of the narcissist. It cannot surrender to life, it cannot surrender to the highest power. And so they continue to go against the natural rhythms of life, causing chaos in the hearts of others and shriveling from their own blocked heart.
When we are faced with Narcissism, or a person Suffering from NPD.—There is always a victim in these scenarios. We all know that the narcissist is not the victim, they are the abuser. However when we use these labels, of accountability and also blaming.. it takes away from the power that’s within in their existence.
Yes this person played a role in our life, that is now causing our hearts to ache from grief and downright disturbance to our soul. They also came into your life to send you a very important message about who you are, and how you are to live your life from this moment on.
The pain people bring us should open our eyes to something. Not just that imperfect (even devilish) people exist on the planet. But now we can look our traumas in the eye and be grateful we can now make mindful decisions on how we choose to carry ourselves and interact with others.
Co-dependency and Validation is something that empaths who are afraid of true power need to feel “safe”. A steady supply of energy and A mask for inferiority is what the narcissist needs to feel “important”. The Narcissist is also deathly afraid of true power, and anyone that exhibits this energy will cause the narcissist to either be extremely attracted, followed by extreme repulsion. & What do you get when you mix love and hate? Jealousy.
The Narcissist is not only repulsed and attracted to true power, but they are jealous. They love the image and energy they see received by truly powerful people, but they are oblivious to the internal and emotional work that is required for it. Not only are they oblivious, they are unwilling— because the empath they attract is there to teach them how.
For my Empaths, You have attracted a narcissist into your life because you are struggling to live in your truth. You’ve got one leg in, and one leg out. Wavering back and forth from one thought pattern, whereas your actions have not yet aligned 1000% with your thoughts and emotions. It’s because you still don’t trust them (or even understand them) as greatly as you should. Because of this, you are left and right brain imbalanced and your faith in the highest power (god, the universe, your higher being) will be tested through the narcissist.
The Narcissist is here to teach you, that you are more powerful than you think. So do us a grand favor... speak your truth and let it heal you, then move on into your life of power and glory. That means do everything you can for the protection and glorification of YOUR own existence, hence the existence of all others.
It’s okay to be angry, it’s okay to be sad, let those emotions pass through you and use them to invoke (keyword) CHANGE, into your life. Learn who it is you are more intimately, so that you can spot a phony a mile away.
The trauma narcissistic relationships bring can be detrimental to our mental and emotional health. Always remember though, we are reborn much stronger, wiser and better from the ashes versus resisting change and evolvement.
Don’t become the narcissist.
Unknowingly we pick up traits from them as a means of defending our heart. Please remember, that power exists when we choose to see it and bow down. Not in any man or woman, but within our being. It’s here and it’s ready to defend us when we allow the e-motions to flow and direct them into the areas that will serve life and love.
Don’t turn back now, you’ve come too far.
Tap into your power.. The E(nergy in) Motion.